Dear Whitney,
My girlfriend and I have been having sex for a while now, and I was just wondering if there are certain sex positions that she is more likely to orgasm from?
- Pleasing My Girl
Dear PMG,
This may sound a bit preachy, but I’m a big fan of Cowgirl, in more ways then one. Experts say, and I think most women would agree, that there’s no better, surefire way then cowgirl—otherwise known as woman-on-top. It’s got all the right ingredients—control, internal and external stimulation, and the added bonus that males typically last longer when on their backs.
In addition to the traditional Cowgirl, your girlfriend can also try the Reverse Cowgirl—where she sits on top, but this time facing your feet. Another way to switch this position up, is by changing locations, specifically to a chair. Dr. Joy Davidson, sex therapist and creator of The Joy Spot, says this position—where she basically sits on your lap—can make all the difference for women who may not like traditional cowgirl. Because the angle of penetration is different and you’re extremely close together, it can give her new sensations and offers a lot of clitoral stimulation.
Dr. Barnaby B. Barratt, sex therapist and director of the Center for Tantric Spirituality, says being on top also helps females breathe more easily, which is key for reaching a mind-blowing orgasm.
While Dr. Allison offers a little tip for women orgasming in this position—tilt your pelvis forward. It sounds so simple, but this small movement flattens the vulva onto the man’s pubic area, which leads to tons of clit stimulation—by basically masturbating on top of him. So I’d say, let your lady take the reigns and just enjoy the ride!
Love,
Whitney
